Having trouble getting your child to do his homework? Relax that’s a universal problem, a bit of planning and foresight will work wonders. Today I helped my son divide his time so that we broke down his homework in parts; he was so excited every time he achieved part of it. So here I am writing about my experiences, in the hope that we can avoid battles held over the mere mention of the big ‘H’ word.
Each child has his own learning patterns, abilities and styles. The trick is identifying your child’s learning styles, does he get distracted easily, is he stressed out whenever its homework time, does he start bargaining for more time? Homework needs preparation; stationery, environment and the right attitude.
The first thing to remember is set a daily routine with homework and stick to it.
Every child needs a relaxation time after school; always check if he’s hungry.
Before the set time check the stationery needed for the day’s homework. Have a place ready, with good lighting and quiet atmosphere. If possible sit with a book yourself for a reading time. Some kids may prefer a less formal setting, maybe a couch or the floor, whatever works best after a few trial and error times.
Remind your child when it’s time to start their work, if he tends to get distracted easily, remind him firmly but calmly that he will probably miss out on playtime or his TV time. Instructions need to be short and clear. Avoid getting emotional.
Encourage self study, only help when asked, he may need a bit of coaxing at first but attempting work on his own will help boost his confidence.
Show your child you care and take an interest in his work. Praise your child for his attempts. Reward him with something that he likes.
Do not do your child’s work for him; it’s alright for him to face the results of incomplete work. Suitable consequences would include loss of some favourite activity. Point or reward system would work wonders with some kids. If problems still continue ask your teacher’s advice, your child may need more assistance.
In today’s world, it is truly a challenge to keep up with a study routine. A child realises the importance of study through the parent and he will definitely appreciate your hard work. With study a child learns time management, working under pressure and self discipline; all essential traits for a well developed personality.
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